I Built My Prayer Routine Like a Start-up
There was a season where my time felt urgent and my spirit felt neglected. That season started in a boardroom. Not metaphorically, but in an actual boardroom. The Sunday before, I had barely whispered words to God. The following week, I had an investor meeting. I remember sitting under fluorescent lights, my phone buzzing, and […]
When My Feelings Started Running My Calendar
I used to let feelings dictate my Yes’s. And for a while, I let them. If I felt inspired, I said yes. If I felt tired, I said no. If I felt guilty, I said yes again. My decisions rose and fell with my mood. One time, after months of ministry pressure and travel for […]
A Small Reminder for Busy Seasons
Here’s another note from my season series. I hope something in these words resonates with you and encourages you in whatever season you are walking through. ************************** There was a time when I was trying to do everything. Lead teams. Finish my thesis. Run my sisters’ community. Plan a major event. From the outside it […]
A Different Way To Think About Rest
For a long time, hustle felt like a virtue. It looked like discipline. It sounded like purpose. It felt like doing the right thing. Until my body interrupted the story. My doctor looked at me and said my cortisol levels were high. That was it. No long explanation. No dramatic warning. Just a quiet sentence […]
What is Your Body Telling You?
It started with a headache that would not leave. I ignored it at first, but this one stayed. For days, it was quite persistent. I had a lot of work to do. Too many things were already in motion. It did not feel like the right time to slow down for something that seemed small. […]
When Obedience Feels Like a Risk
I remember asking myself a quiet question I could not shake. Is this really God’s will for me? Or is this a redirection? The questions stayed longer than I expected. They followed me into my days. They sat with me in still moments. And no matter how much I tried to focus on what was […]
I Thought Purpose Would Come With a Title
I used to believe that purpose would arrive with a title, That one day, I would step into the right role, hold the right position, and finally feel like I had become who I was meant to be. I thought purpose would look official. Like a title people could recognise, a role that carried weight. […]
Navigating Wilderness Seasons
I’ve been thinking about in-between seasons, and I wanted to share it with you. ********************************** There is a space most people do not really talk about. And this is because it is uncomfortable. It is the space between who you were and who you are becoming; often called the wilderness season. It feels like delay, […]
My Tribe Taught Me This About God
Have you ever heard people say, “Christianity is a private journey. It is you and your God. Know God for yourself.” And honestly, there is so much truth in that. Faith is deeply personal. Your walk with God is something no one else can build for you. There are places in your journey where it […]
When Community Hurts: Healing From Friendship Breakups
Nobody really prepares you for friendship heartbreak. Or shows you exactly how to deal with it. Romantic heartbreak, maybe. Family wounds, perhaps. But friendship grief is often treated like something small, something you should move past quietly. And because of that, many people carry the pain of broken friendships in silence, even when it hurts […]